Love Folklore: Triumphs & Sorrows

 The Mix & Match of Love

Folklore is layered with folk wisdom about the many facets of love: how to love, whom to love, when to love, what to love. Think about it. LOVE in one way or another is at the heart of our relationships to ourselves, one another, our environments, our spiritual beliefs, and our societies.

A quick look at the landscape of folklore reveals the countless ways folk lessons foretell, advise, predict, and soothe the rollercoaster of love, tamed or untamed. Such knowledge is embedded in an array of forms, such as ballads,  limericks, food lore and folk art. 

Here are a few specific examples:

• Celtic legend about love lost: Tristan and Isolde
• Egyptian herbal remedy to attract lovers: Cinnamon
• French fairytale about transformative love: Beauty and the Beast
• Greek fable about deceit: Mercury and the Tradesman  
• Swedish proverb about love’s danger: Love has produced some heroes but even more idiots.

Poems about love can be found in the newly released Untamed Love, a Whiskey Tree Wave 1 edition published by Broken Spine, an artist collective based in the United Kingdom.

But more about that a bit later in this blog. Let's get back to the folklore of love.

A look at the word

 
Britannica.com registers LOVE  as having been  “derived from the hypothetical term leubh, a root in Proto-Indo-European (reconstructed parent of Indo-European languages) meaning care or desire. Leubh eventually developed into Latin libet and Old English lufu, which was both a noun and a verb describing deep affection or being very fond of something.   

 
While the word “love” has retained its fundamental meaning of affection and deep attachment, as described in Neuralworld.com’s Etymological Origins of Love, it has evolved over time. For example, in ancient Greek, the word was classified into various categories, including eros (romantic love), philia (friendship), and agape (unconditional love).
 
Per the Oxford English Dictionary (one of my most favorite books, next to Roget’s Thesaurus). the first known English uses of the word love as noun and verb date back to Middle English:
“… from Old English lufu; akin to Old High German luba love, Old English lēof dear, Latin lubēre, libēre to please …”
 
It’s Time to Guess
 
With all of this in mind, have some fun; test your love wits. See if you can determine what type of love is written about in the following select lines from Untamed Love, the second of three Whiskey Tree Wave 1 anthologies, each composed of 14 poems by the same 14 poets.
 

Clue: As the title suggests, untamed love is wild, raw, and unpredictable. If you want to check your guesses, visit The Whiskey Shot mini conversations with the poets about their work.

Ready, Set, Go!
 
When you lay your head
 on my heart I dare not die.
            Love Poem, Alan Parry
 
& you a molten roar
for the joy of it

Embers, Cait O’Neill McCullagh

 
i’m a slave to you
 used and abused
            I am a Gun, Paul Brookes
 
Your heart can hold all of this, she said.
            Holding the Humming of Bees, Sue Finch
 
drowned pulling his dog from the water.
              Love! His affections do not that way tend… , David Butler
 
I swoon at the furious beauty concealed
in the wasteland of this wildflower wound.
             Falling for Bone, Morag Anderson
 
This pillow is a poor
stand in for your form
            Insomniac Research, Jay Rafferty
 
Heated by the rub of our bodies,
you shed skin on my pillow, wet silk threads
            Feathered Serpent: Quetzalcoatl, Karen Pierce Gonzalez
 
Sand cascades over your brow,
we're so tired now,
            Untitled (Aqua Aprilis Symphony)  James Jackson
 
I wash my hair in a slow current as if none are watching.
Nor preying. It is safe, it seems. Language is soft-mouthed
            Enduring The Artist's Mirror, Vikki C
 
And so I lost my honeymoon. The sandy beach. The fifty guests. My black pearl watered silk.
            Lost and Found, Mary Earnshaw
 
it’s hot
you say, rousing me
tea & biscuits after sex   Paul Robert Mullen
 
untether me
let me pound the earth like Bison
            Unboundaried  Anne Walsh Donnell
 
as faint images
shrivel about you.
            The Darkroom, Matthew M. C. Smith
 
More
The curious among you can also check out what Broken Spine Editor-in-Chief Alan Parry has to say about the entire Whiskey Tree Wave I edition.  
 
For those who want to own of Untamed Love or gift it to a loved one, please visit  https://amzn.to/3W0gMB1